Mediation in Family Law Matters
Now that New York State has Presumptive Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR), when you file for child custody, visitation, or child support you may have the option to have your case referred to mediation.
Please go to the Presumptive ADR and Mediation section for more information.
How can mediation help in family law cases?
If you are separated from your child’s other parent, mediators from Community Dispute Resolution Centers (CDRC) can work with both of you to help make plans for how to raise your children. Their services are free or low-cost.
Mediators can help you talk about:
- Who will make decisions about the child (custody)
- How to share parenting time (parenting plans or visitation)
- How to handle child support
- If you need to change the custody or child support orders you already have
Mediation also improves communication between parents, which has a positive impact on the children.
My case is already with a family court judge. Is it too late to use mediation?
No, it is not too late. You can ask if your case can be sent to mediation at any stage in the legal process. But both you and the other party need to agree on mediation, or the case will stay with the judge.
Can I go to mediation before going to Family Court for help?
Yes, you can. You can contact a CDRC anytime you have a conflict or disagreement. Please go to the Legal Help Directory or to the NY Courts website to find a CDRC near you.
Developed with assistance from NYS Unified Court System, Office of ADR Programs
Updated 3/7/23